Okay, at this point you have done what few people do, which is not to
apologize right away. Most people who want their ex back rush in
with a thousand I'm sorry's, but not you.
You have followed several steps
first. You have owned up to what you did like an adult. Not
offered a bunch of lame excuses and explanations like "it didn't mean
anything..." It obviously meant everything to your ex.
Next, you mirrored your ex's
feelings. You said how what you did made him or her feel.
This makes them feel heard at a deep emotional level.
Third, you have allowed them to
vent and get things off their chest. This is crucial to allowing
your ex to release and let go of some of their hurt, angry feelings.
Now, once those things are
done, you can apologize. "I'm really sorry for what I did.
I'm very sorry for hurting you and losing you and it tears me up
inside..." Something like that.
If you have followed these 4
steps, you are doing very well. The next step is to ask if there
is anything you can do to repair the damage you caused. Wow!
Nobody has every asked them that. They will really get your
sincerity.
The final step is to ask if
they will accept your apology. Not to ask them to take you back.
Just ask if they will accept your apology. They might or might
not. You don't pressure them, you let them have some time, days if
needed, to consider things and get to forgiveness.
If you can follow these six
steps, you will make an apology that is memorable, powerful and can help
your ex get to forgiveness that much quicker!
If you would detailed examples
of each step of this process so that you can get your own ex back, you
can check out a complete 7 Step Strategy here at
Get Your Love Back Now.
