I used to dread going to year end parties because no one ever spoke to me and I was kind of left to my own devices. But this year things have changed for me and I can now hold my head up high and be confident enough. I can’t really pinpoint it, but all I know is the opposite sex is sitting up and taking notice.
Sometimes when I get a phone call and asked out on a date, I still pinch myself just to make sure that I am not in a dream. I thank my lucky stars that my life has changed and am grateful for every day that comes my way now.
What actually transpired I don’t really know except I did make a few adjustments which I remember, to my life. These weren’t really huge life altering ones. I can’t say for sure, but maybe these three things just did it for me and put me on the eligible list again.
I love wearing accessories and bought a few pieces of cocktail jewelry which I wore on business meetings or business dinners I had to attend for my work. I strategically matched them with really elegant but daring dresses and found that I received more than a few stares and compliments from colleagues and business associates. This sort of put me onto the right path with even knowing it.
With this idea that outward beauty is also sometimes necessary, I started experimenting with different fragrances. I loved the new beauty perfume that everyone is wearing and found that the opposite sex would definitely turn their heads when I would walked past them. My colleagues loved my new look and smell and arranged all sorts of blind dates for me. I was stunned to say the least.
Because I had a few blackheads and some blemishes on my face, I also indulged in some acne facial treatments which did my skin wonders. The treatment opened but my pore blockages and gave my skin a change to breath. I walked around with a glowing skin which looked attractive enough to date.
So having done these subconscious acts, could have improved my outward look and made me more accessible to the opposite sex. Who knows really?
Tags: beauty, dating, self-esteem