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If you feel like you have hit a wall i.e you feel like you need a change or a fresh start after a certain ordeal then encouragement about death if you have lost a loved one can play a major factor in getting you up and going.

The need for change is driven by a variety of reasons. Let me try and cover some of the most common ones below.

1.    The loss of a loved one: There are also different losses in this category. For example, losing someone through death is one of the hardest things to move on from. I know someone who lost a someone dear to him sometime in 2007 and to date he still keep her pictures on his phone. I have seen him cry a few time especially when something reminds him of her.

If you want to put the past behind and move on then you need to really believe that you can and it okay to move on. Do not feel like you are neglecting her memory or simply forgetting about him or her. It simply means you are trying to keep the memories and let them inspire you to live the rest of your life.

2.    Starting a new job: learning about how to write an encouragement card and actually coming up with one are a must have for someone in a new office. My first day at work isn’t a very good memory to me either. The one thing I remember about it is how nervous I was. It takes time to get used to a new office. You don’t need to pressurise yourself into “fitting” in so soon. In no time you will be back to your usual self and your colleagues will be pleased with who you really are.

3.    New Area: if you have just moved into a new country I can only imagine how difficult it is for you. One of the keys to feeling comfortable in a new location is to try and go out to meet new people|If you want to get over being home sick then you need to take the first step. You can go to the movies or simply look for words of encouragement online. This way you will start to experience the best part of being in a new area and you will relax and enjoy the fresh start.

Are you trying to cope with the death of your boyfriend or do you know someone who is? Well this is probably the hardest situation to be faced with. In such a case you probably need to hear encouragement words from someone who cares.

You need to understand that the grieving process has some certain steps or feelings. Below is a list of some of the most promonent ones – hopefully you will realise that you are not alone and you are on your way to healing.

Disbelief

Disbelief is the first feeling that comes when you are told about some bad news especially the loss of someone you love. It is even harder when you have just had a conversation or just seen your boyfriend. This initial feeling may last for a couple of hours and sometimes days. In most occasions it lasts up to the day of the funeral.

Shock

Shock comes by as a result of seeing the person actually motionless and lifeless. It could be at the morgue or at the memorial service. This hits you as soon as you realise that your boyfriend is actually gone – dead. Shock is temporary, in no time the feeling goes away.

Anger

This feeling can be directed at any one and everyone including yourself and the people who were meant to “protect” your boyfriend. If you do not properly manage anger, it can get really destructive. You need to watch what you say and think during the time. Look into the internet for some daily words of encouragement to help you deal with this destructive feeling.

Pain

Pain is tormenting and longer lasting. It calls for some consistent exposure to words of encouragement. Pain is deadly. I mean it just sticks in there and does not seem to ever end. Believe me it goes away. Memories never go away, yes but the heart ache stops at some point.

Another feeling that is attached to pain is helplessness and also regret. You may feel nothing will ever take away the pain or regret not telling your boyfriend certain things.