The article title is a question you may well be asking yourself. Would it be ok and ethical to get my wife back with psychological tricks? In my opinion it’s ok.
I’m sure there’s lots of talk about how devious it is to use psychological tricks but the fact remains we use these and other tricks every day.
In our everyday lives we use psychology and psychological mind games all the time.
We may use reverse psychological tricks on our work mates or friends. We may even use them on our kids when they are being particularly stubborn.
If we do use psychological tricks on people we don’t often even realise. It’s so easy for us to mix up a bit of psychological trickery into our words and conversations.
Imagine going out for a run but your friend just isn’t up for it. You quietly let them know it’s fine if they don’t feel physically up to the task. Before you know it their pride takes over and they are bursting to get going.
You used a psychological trick there to get your friend to take the action you wanted. Psychological tricks at work. Looking at it like this it seems ok to use, certainly not sneaky.
You can use these tricks as part of your overall – get your ex back – strategy. One that worked for me involved curiosity.
I left her a message on her voice mail with a line in that I knew she would be curious about. And sure enough she called me back and started a conversation.
Another trick is to play her favorite song in the background if when she calls. She immediately starts to associate you with that song and she starts to think nice thoughts about you again.
Or next time she visits, even if it’s just to pick her stuff up. Cook her favourite meal and have the smell do the work. She starts to think of you when she smells that food.
There’s a whole host of tricks like these you can add to your plan to get your wife back. But the fact remains you got to have a solid plan if you want the right result.
If you don’t have a game plan you can kiss goodbye as the psychological tricks wont do the job on their own. You need a game plan like mine when I set out to get my wife back.