I’m a woman who knows how to shop for a man, and I prepared this for you men.
Men loathe the thought of entering a shopping mall. Women get all hot and bothered by the shopping experience. Men would rather shovel a barn stall than go shopping. They feel like they’ve been kicked in the huevos. It’s like reading all the books in a law library!
At this point men, just chill out and grab a cup of fresh roasted coffee and read on!
A little hint to you girls, if you have something in mind write it down and paste it to your man’s forehead! Keep it to five things – maximum. Make sure to list the price and places to buy the stuff. You must make sure he knows where the list is and keep it updated! Include in the list your favorite color, flower, and clothing size you wear (the actual size, not like your drivers license weight.)
If you don’t have a list to go on, I have five options that should work for about 80% of women. If you are thinking you’ll take the easy way out and buy gift cards – Don’t! Gift cards should only be given to your lady IF she requests them! Clothing is another shopping boner. Unless your lady tells you exactly what clothing (and size) to buy, don’t go there! If you buy clothing too small she’ll feel fat, too big she’ll think you think she’s fat.
My favorite gift is a flower arrangement with a love letter attached. There isn’t much a romantic dinner can’t solve. If you think through your dinner plans and after meal activities, you will find a very affectionate woman on your hands.
One thing woman like is pampering! We love to receive exotic lotions, scented bath salts and a high end bath robe. A high end bath robe can be expensive so it’s best to shop around.
Still thinking, not quite what you had in mind. Think sweet! Chocolate and gourmet coffee are your friend. Most women can be wooed with splendid chocolates and gourmet coffee. It is a gift that will last every morning (at least for a while) that spoils her senses. Better yet, give her the gift of a coffee club membership to treat her for a full year. Most on-line gourmet coffee retailers offer this option. Coffee clubs are great way to sample through lots of different coffees. One stipulation, do not get any version of canned coffee or “store bought” chocolate. The chocolate must be in a box, or don’t bother.
Another option is an expensive pen and leather bound planner or journal. No one likes to be without a pen, or be stuck with one that only works intermittently. Even more frustrating is to hunt for a pen, then find one that doesn’t work. Whatever you do, make sure you purchase a high quality pen. If you opt for a journal over a planner get one that has plenty of pages, but not so big that she can’t hold it.
If your lady is into growing things then by all means, a nice potted plant is not out of the question. Flowers like African Violets, and miniature roses both bloom year around and require minimal upkeep. It’s a beautiful, living reminder that you are thinking about your girl.
When it comes down to it guys, you should just ask your woman what she wants. We all know what we want. Don’t let the sky be the limit. Make sure you let her know your budget. I’ve already given you a good guideline to get you started on your gift buying. Remember, we want you to give a gift that reflects US, so we know that you know and treasure US! If all else fails, then a framed picture of the two of you will be enough to get you through this holiday.
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