Just broke up? Dying to know how to win him back? I think your best bet is to stop any contact with your ex. It sounds stupid I know. But it really does get results.
I realise you’re feeling the pain of the bust up right about now. I bet emotional meltdown is right around the corner. You get the best of both worlds if you cut all contact with your ex.
First it will give you time to heal. Healing on an emotional level is very important. This is important for you, but also for your plan to win him back.
An emotionally fragile state of mind will ruin any chance you have of winning him back. Being in total control allows you to sensibly handle any situation that he throws at you. You can demonstrate just how ‘grown up’ you are, even though you are expected to be fragile.
Secondly, zero contact makes him notice. Your ex will notice you aren’t there anymore. Yes he may have split with you, so why would he miss you? The fact is, if you are not in your ex’s space all the time he will notice this.
If he only wonders about you because you aren’t there, at least he is still thinking about you. It’s better to be in their head just a little than not be in their head at all. When you pester and plead with him he has negative thoughts about you. When he thinks of your absence the thought patterns are generally good.
How long do you stop the contact for? It’s difficult to say exactly as everyone is different. Not more than 3 or 4 weeks though, you don’t want him moving on.
What’s the next step you may ask. “I’m in full control and want to win him back, how do I do it?” That’s a fair question and the answer I would give anyone is to put together a game plan. A plan that you can easily follow all the way to the end.
You have 2 options really. You can try to win him back using your own charm. Best of luck if you go this route. Or maybe try a proven method made by someone else.
There are quite a few systems like this that you can get on the internet, even thought it’s hard to believe. Systems that boast thousands of succesful testimonials. Methods that are easy to follow from start to finish.
I know I was skeptical when I first came across one of these systems. But I had my mind quickly changed. One such method has proof from six thousand couples, and counting!
So, your options now are…go into it blind and try to learn how to win him back yourself. Or get yourself kitted out with a set of instructions that have been proven over and over to work. I know what I would do (actually it’s what I did).
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