No CHEATING! We are about to do the
first important exercise to get back with your mate. We all know the
tendency during a break up is to blame your ex. They did this, they did
that, it was really all their fault, yada yada yada. Even if we cheated
on them, sometimes we can find ways to lay the blame on them.
Now, it may truthfully be mostly your
ex’s fault. It may even be “all” their fault. But this book is based
on real love, and to get back real love you have to be “real” honest.
So answer the following questions in one sentence for yourself. It’s
not a test, nobody will read your answers, but take a minute and answer
each question as best you can. Try to boil your answers down to one
sentence, or at the most two.
You want to try to get to the heart of
the matter as clearly as you can. This is important for how you
will use the Immediate Reconnect Strategies that follow. You can change
your answers later, but first you have to understand something about
break downs and problems in relationships.
Breakdowns are
ok, and they happen in all healthy relationships!
People have some
romantic ideal that good, close, loving relationships don’t have fights,
disagreements and breakdowns. But it isn’t true. Breakdowns and break
ups happen, its part of being in a relationship with another human being
who has his/her own interests, values, desires and needs that are
different from yours. It goes with not being able to read your mates
mind. It’s gotta happen!
Next get ex
back page here.
There are a lot more steps to
the process of getting your ex back. If you would like to get your
ex back quickly, you can check out a
complete 7 Step Strategy here at
Get Your Love Back Now.
